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Post by Chickenbutt on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:03 pm

Honeysage, would this law apply in this case as tribal law falls under the auspices of federal law, not state law?
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Post by tesstruhart on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:15 pm

This is another gut-wrenching heartbreak. that little boy didn't kill himself, then burn his little body and bury himself under the porch!!! Kinda like little Caylee didn't duct tape herself and climb in a plastic bag and a laundry bag and get into the woods. WTH, just kill and lawyer up and let them try to prove it...I'm just sick
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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:23 pm

Chickenbutt wrote:Honeysage, would this law apply in this case as tribal law falls under the auspices of federal law, not state law?

hmm...good question, not sure. could he be charged under both state and federal law? wondering about mom, if she is spilling the beans now to plea herself out of trouble...she did admit to actually witnessing abuse.
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Post by Chickenbutt on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:25 pm

I don't think anyone on any reservation can be charged by the state since Indian Reservations are under Federal Law.
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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:28 pm

Chickenbutt wrote:I don't think anyone on any reservation can be charged by the state since Indian Reservations are under Federal Law.

guess the good part there is he would then be eligible for the death penalty...maybe that will get him talking.
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Post by Chickenbutt on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:30 pm

Hopefully
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Re: Carnel Chamberlain -- Found Deceased 6/28/12

Post by Alessandra_Deux on Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:37 pm


Anthony Bennett, Mug Shot.

The United States District Court in Bay City, Michigan says Bennett is currently in a pre-trial hearing.

The current charge is assault to a child under the age of 16 involving bodily injury.

Bennett could face more charges this afternoon.

http://www.fox17online.com/news/fox17-carnel-chamberlain-anthony-bennett-faces-charges-for-boys-murder-20120629,0,5612360.story
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Post by Calypso on Fri Jun 29, 2012 8:01 pm

East Coast~

Nancy Grace is covering Carnel Chamberlain right now~
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Post by Alessandra_Deux on Fri Jun 29, 2012 8:18 pm

Man charged with assaulting Mich. boy found dead

June 29, 2012, 5:27 p.m. EDT

Bennett faces a charge of assault resulting in substantial bodily injury to a child under 16, and was sent back to jail after the brief hearing in federal court in Bay City to await a detention hearing next week.

Federal prosecutors, who handle major crimes on Indian reservations, do not want him released on bond, but would not comment when asked if Bennett was being charged with assault as a way of holding him until a more serious charge is brought

http://www.syracuse.com/newsflash/index.ssf/story/man-charged-with-assaulting-mich-boy-found/35017e6190ed4b9c826c9a97e4ebe467
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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:03 pm

as usual Nancy Grace was a day late and a dollar short. the interview with mom was from a few days ago they were still talking about him being "missing".
speaking of mom...what a fool! so obvious she was completely goo-goo ga-ga in love with this POS. she allowed him to completely take over her, her home and her son. she needs to be prosecuted. this needs to stop. she talked about Carnel's "discipline" saying...'we were training him to be a man'. makes me ill.
transcript won't do her ignorance justice, sure hope someone has taped the show.
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Post by Ann - Tx on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:08 pm



http://www.ktvu.com/ap/ap/crime/boy-4-found-dead-under-home-on-mich-reservation/nPhx7/
KTVU - Oakland, CA 6/29/12

Man charged with assaulting Mich. boy found dead

Snipped:

According to the two-page criminal complaint, Jaimee Chamberlain told the FBI that she saw her son with a bruised and swollen face as well as a cut lip in late May or early June. She said he had been struck by Bennett when she was away from the home.

A few days later, she saw Bennett pick up her son by the neck and drop him before dragging him into a room by his foot, according to the court document.

It wasn't known why Jaimee Chamberlain allowed her son to be in her boyfriend's company if she believed he was abusing the boy. She answered her phone when contacted by The Associated Press but hung up without commenting.




Associated Press
A Michigan State Police dog handler and his dog search the property
at 7340 East Tomah Road in Mount Pleasant, Mich. on Thursday,
June 28 2012, where the body of Carnel Chamberlain was reportedly
found sometime earlier in the day. Chamberlain, 4 was reported
missing on Thursday, June 21 from the home and a massive search
and rescue effort was in place in the area in the week that followed.

(AP Photo/The Morning Sun, Lisa Yanick-Jonaitis)



Associated Press
In this undated Isabella County Sheriff's Department photo,
Anthony Bennett is shown in Mount Pleasant, Mich. Bennett, 20,
has been charged with assaulting his girlfriend's 4-year-old son
whose family says was found dead under a porch at the
mid-Michigan Indian reservation where they live. Anthony Bennett
is charged in a federal criminal complaint Friday, June 29, 2012,
in Bay City. Hundreds of people gathered Thursday night at a vigil
for Carnel Chamberlain near Mount Pleasant at the Saginaw
Chippewa Indian Tribe's reservation, where he had lived with his
mother and Bennett. He was reported missing June 21 while in the
care of Bennett, while his mother was at work.

(AP Photo/Isabella County Sheriffs Department)


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Post by Calypso on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:10 pm

Yup, Honeysage, training a 4 year old to be a man.

And what else did she say? "Because he told me he LOVED me." EPIC FAIL!

I know this mother is hurting and full of grief, but this is all over her own stupidity and her failure to listen to and protect her son.

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Post by Calypso on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:11 pm

Thank you Anne for posting both side of his loser face.
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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:21 pm

Calypso wrote:Yup, Honeysage, training a 4 year old to be a man.

And what else did she say? "Because he told me he LOVED me." EPIC FAIL!

I know this mother is hurting and full of grief, but this is all over her own stupidity and her failure to listen to and protect her son.


she also blamed her big brother because after all he set her up with him and he wouldn't let baby sister be involved with a bad guy...so she like, totally trusted him (i could puke).
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Post by Justice4all on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:22 pm

KZ wrote:Have been watching this story for a few days. Every time I read about a child abused or murdered by a "boyfriend" of a single mother, I am angry and heartbroken all over again.

Thought I'd post some info I've been reading about this. I'm not suggesting that all boyfriends are potential abusers or killers, but there is emerging research into the phenomena of "bad" (define that in your own way) boyfriends abusing/ killing the children of their partners. If we can do nothing else besides mourn these vulnerable children, we can work to educate ourselves about the risks and statistics. I don't know-- maybe that's just my heartache trying to find a way to make sense of these kinds of killings.

"They don't love the kid," said Martin Daly, author of a number of Canadian studies on the issue. "A lot of stepmothers and boyfriends regard the kid as undesired baggage who they wish had never been born. The child remains a resented nuisance at best."

Daly is the co-author of a 1999 Canadian study that found that an American child living with one genetic parent and one step-parent or a live-in companion was 100 times as likely to suffer fatal abuse as a child living with two genetic parents.

http://old.post-gazette.com/regionstate/20010426boyfriend2.asp

Child abuse by mothers' boyfriends: why the overrepresentation?

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1393717

Bad boyfriends often abuse children of partners

Children living in households with unrelated adults are nearly 50 times as likely to die of inflicted injuries as children living with two biological parents, according to a study of Missouri abuse reports published in the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics in 2005.

http://www.sunjournal.com/node/102311
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21838575/ns/health-childrens_health/t/children-higher-risk-nontraditional-homes

I guess that's enough references for now. My anger is gonna make me post a dissertation if I don't just stop. Gonna go play with my kids.
These statistics are startling no matter which study you look at. We could start a whole section with the amount of cases we have where children were killed by a step-parent or a parent's boyfriend or girlfriend. Parents really need to be smarter about who they allow around their children.
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Re: Carnel Chamberlain -- Found Deceased 6/28/12

Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:32 pm

Calypso wrote:Thank you Anne for posting both side of his loser face.

what does his neck tattoo say, JOKER? can't quite make out first 2 letters. i thought i read somewhere he had a tattoo that said "crazy"
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Re: Carnel Chamberlain -- Found Deceased 6/28/12

Post by Marica on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:33 pm

Such a beautiful child. Am reminded of my great nephew as I look at this sweet face. So sad that he couldn't have remained with hid Grandmother.
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Re: Carnel Chamberlain -- Found Deceased 6/28/12

Post by Calypso on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:46 pm

Does anyone know what jail/correctional institution Bennett is being held in?


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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:49 pm

http://www.woodtv.com/dpp/news/local/central_mich/anthony-bennett-carnel-chamberlain-fed-complaint-062912
Man charged in 'assault' of 4-year-old

Violet Green, who used to live with Bennett, told 24 Hour News 8 as soon as she heard about Carnel, she feared the worst.

Bennett, she said, was in and out of jail for much of his life. She finally kicked him out of her home when she saw his violent side first-hand.

"When he left, he took (my granddaughter's) dog and that when he kill her dog and set it on fire."
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Post by Hunters G-ma on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:49 pm

Thanks KZ & J4A I hope all readers of this forum look at the statistics and pay close attention to themselves, friends and family for any signs of such behavior. This is a prime example of how these young girls on drugs have no self worth, much less care for their "extra" baggage...just looking for their next high. This is another baby that should have been given to a family that really wanted a child to love and nourish. What a beautiful child....what a worthless piece of shit that could do this to a child...I hope the worst for this baby killer Evil or Very Mad
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Post by Calypso on Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:57 pm

https://www.vinelink.com/vinelink/detailsAction.do?siteId=23005&agency=9&id=000077810&searchType=offender

Offender Name: ANTHONY MICHAEL BENNETT
Offender ID:000077810
Date of Birth:03/11/1992
Age: 20
Race: Native American
Gender: Male

Custody Status: In Custody
Location of Offender:Bay County Sheriff's Office
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Post by Honeysage on Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:03 pm

http://www.mlive.com/news/saginaw/index.ssf/2012/06/carnel_chamberlains_mother_rec.html
Carnel Chamberlain's mother speaks on CNN, recounts suspicious events after returning home to find son missing

they just did a basic summary of Nancy Grace show
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Post by Honeysage on Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:45 am

http://www.hlntv.com/video/2012/06/28/cops-new-info-emerges-search-carnel?hpt=hp_bn15
New info emerges about slain 4-year-old boy

6 minute video clip of mom with Nancy Grace
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Post by Ann - Tx on Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:12 am

Honeysage wrote:http://www.hlntv.com/video/2012/06/28/cops-new-info-emerges-search-carnel?hpt=hp_bn15
New info emerges about slain 4-year-old boy

6 minute video clip of mom with Nancy Grace

Honeysage, I'll embed it for you:




Click to play
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Re: Carnel Chamberlain -- Found Deceased 6/28/12

Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:34 am

Confirmed: Will be going through Federal Court~

Watch the local videos:

http://www.wnem.com/story/18912290/man-in-custody

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Post by Alessandra_Deux on Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:18 am

Calypso wrote:Confirmed: Will be going through Federal Court~

Watch the local videos:

http://www.wnem.com/story/18912290/man-in-custody


Thank you, Calypso.

I believe that they arrested him on the complaint of assault and bodily injury of a minor, and denied him bond, to keep him in custody until they are able to file against him the charges for the heinous murder of Carnel. Hopefully this is what is happening.

From the link that you posted above:

"The tribe said all questions regarding the case are to be direct to the Bay City FBI office. The FBI is now handling the investigation and agent Gustovo Grodsinsky said the case is a "sealed indictment" and his agency would be issuing a statement sometime today on the case."

"Police were back at the scene Friday where they took apart the porch and part of the home's siding to search for more evidence"


Authorities tearing up the home's porch
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Post by Marica on Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:23 am

I find this information very disturbing.
WHY hasn't this man been charged with murder?


Snipped from article:

"Bennett has been charged with assault resulting with substantial bodily injury to a child under 16 years of age.

Bennett is being held without bond and if convicted on the single count he's been charged with he could spend up to five years in prison and face a maximum $250,000 fine."
http://www.wnem.com/story/18912290/man-in-custody
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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:45 am

The investigation is still open, Marcia.

This is far from over.

The needed to get custody of this guy- so they got him on a lesser charge to keep him in jail while they are solidifying a case against him.
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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:54 am

Alessandra_Deux wrote:
Calypso wrote:Confirmed: Will be going through Federal Court~

Watch the local videos:

http://www.wnem.com/story/18912290/man-in-custody


Thank you, Calypso.

I believe that they arrested him on the complaint of assault and bodily injury of a minor, and denied him bond, to keep him in custody until they are able to file against him the charges for the heinous murder of Carnel. Hopefully this is what is happening.

From the link that you posted above:

"The tribe said all questions regarding the case are to be direct to the Bay City FBI office. The FBI is now handling the investigation and agent Gustovo Grodsinsky said the case is a "sealed indictment" and his agency would be issuing a statement sometime today on the case."

"Police were back at the scene Friday where they took apart the porch and part of the home's siding to search for more evidence"


Authorities tearing up the home's porch

I'd say Bennett finally screwed up!
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Post by Marica on Sat Jun 30, 2012 11:15 am

Thnx Calypso. I wrote while you were posting.
Shame on me for not changing my comment.
I hope the mother is charged as well.
Something has to be done to send a message to
a parent that when their live in BF/GF harms their
child/children they too may be liable for the harm.
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Post by Alessandra_Deux on Sat Jun 30, 2012 11:53 am

"Officials said Bennett was arrested around 6:30 p.m. on Thursday at his sister's home, which is also located on the reservation. TV5 learned that Bennett has a criminal record, including a felony assault on a police officer. Bennett is not the boy's biological father; Carnel's biological dad is currently serving a prison term. "
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Post by Alessandra_Deux on Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:12 pm

Marica wrote:Thnx Calypso. I wrote while you were posting.
Shame on me for not changing my comment.
I hope the mother is charged as well.
Something has to be done to send a message to
a parent that when their live in BF/GF harms their
child/children they too may be liable for the harm.

Apparently Carnel's mother was the only one who was working to support "the family of three", Bennett's job was to look after Carnel while she was working at the Casino. He has a violent past, she witnessed him physically abusing her son and she didn't take any action to stop the abuse, the abuse escalated until it culminated in his death.

She knew that something was definitely wrong when she returned home from work and her son was allegedly missing, "he was acting weird", she found signs that something ominous has taken place while she was gone.

I believe that she should be found liable with permitting the abuse of her son at the hands of her live in boyfriend, and with allowing the abuse to escalate to the point that it did. Her boyfriend's violence against her son resulted in his death, she should share responsibility for what happened to him.
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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:16 pm

I started a candle page for Carnel and family.

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=%2ACC%2A
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Post by Alessandra_Deux on Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:23 pm

Calypso wrote:I started a candle page for Carnel and family.

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=%2ACC%2A

Thank you so much, Calypso!.
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Post by dqcaz on Sat Jun 30, 2012 12:34 pm

For Carnel

Up to Heaven with you boy
In the arms of Angels you'll find joy
And never again the pain of battle will your soul employ

I am sick to death of precious children beaten and discarded like trash.
My heart aches for the living hell they have experienced in their so short lives.
I had my first child two weeks after my seventeenth birthday, and yes I was scared but thankfully the Lord guided me and raising my children was the best times of my life.
I have to wonder if it is today's drug culture or the lack of self esteem in girls today or this Me Me I am entitled to have my own life, children be Damned as if they are bit players on young peoples self centered stage.

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Post by glazier on Sat Jun 30, 2012 1:15 pm

Well, these young people have such a HUGE sense of
entitlement and a shocking inability to recognize there are
CONSEQUENCES to there actions.

There needs to be Laws passed holding Mothers responsible
for the PROTECTION of their kids!!
It used to be COMMONSENSE that a Mother has an inherent
obligation to PROTECT her child from harm, but these IDIOT
Juries today need a Road-map to find commonsense.

IMO, this Jaimee is Guilty of something here.
I think most reasonable people would feel the same.
The problem is, unless it's spelled in black-n-white
it's hard for some to vote guilty.

I'm not explaining this well.
I keep thinking of the Caylee Trial and how they couldn't
see:
1)Child in Mothers care
2)Child found Dead and discarded
3) Mother MUST bear SOME level of responsibility
The burden of proof should shift in such cases to the
Mother. To prove she did all she could to PROTECT Her
Child.
'Caylee's Law' on Steroids of some type.
Something's GOT to change here, people are using LOOPHOLES to get away with Murdering KIDS!!!! Evil or Very Mad

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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 1:58 pm

Ok, we are ANGRY!

We are grieving- WITH the family.

We need to remember, this is Domestic Violence.

There's only one person who is responsible for what happened to Carnel and I suggest we keep the blame where it should be. Anthony Bennett.

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Post by sitemama on Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:21 pm

But really, since the grandma had this baby in her care until this past month, why was he given back to the mom when she works nights? Why didn't she take him to grandma's to atleast spend the night once she saw BF abusing him in front of her, and after CC told her that BF punched him and left bruises on his little body. I also feel she should be held responsible to an extent. Sorry, that's just how I feel.

When my daughter died of cancer, when her twins were 5 y/o, my oldest granddaughter took them to raise as her own. Her husband did not want them from the beginning, but when they had their own son, he became very abusive (verbally) to them. I over heard him tell the girl to get out of his f***ing face, when all she did was try to hug him when he returned from work. He was always talking to them like that, and did not like them having any friends come over. I call her my daughter because her father murdered her mom when she was only 13 months old. I told her if she didn't make him stop abusing the twins, I would take them away from her. My daughter finally could not take it any more, and she kicked him out. She has primary custody of their son, and he gets him every other weekend and on Wednesdays for the night.

He is now 7 y/o and the twins are 15, and they are so close. My little man asked me a few weeks ago, 'why doesn't my dad's family like any of my family'. How do you answer a question like that? We have never said anything ugly about any of them to him, but he said they talk about all of us all the time. To me, that is still abuse. This kind of talk should not take place in front of small children.


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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:01 pm

I agree, Sitemama. Glad your daughter has gotten herself and the children out of that situation. The seem to be better for it and aren't growing up in that cycle.

I jumped on the bandwagon too, but in reality, we don't know how he abused the mother and what control her had on her.

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Post by Honeysage on Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:28 pm


i will not give mom an inch of sympathy, this was 100% preventable!!!!!

if a man stood in front of me and threatened my life in an attempt to get to my child and beat them then by God you will have to kill me...that is what mom's do...sacrifice themselves!!!!!!!!!

she has never mentioned being afraid of AB at all, the only violence in that home was against Carnel with mom's permission.

Carnel is the only victim!!!! and that poor child, at the innocent age of 4 spoke out against his abuser-not once, but multiple times-and mom did nothing!!!!

Carnel at 4 was more of a man than AB could ever imagine to be-

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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:37 pm

True, Honeysage, just saying there may be more to this story than we know.

The facts are scant at the moment.

Let's withold judgement until we know all the facts, which are sure to come.

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Post by Marica on Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:13 pm

Usually when someone comments and I find their post
especially to my liking I send a PM. In this case I want
to roll out the band and have a parade in honor of
Honeysage's awesome comment. guitar

Sorry.. this is the best I can do for a parade...
duckies duckies

Honeysage wrote:
i will not give mom an inch of sympathy, this was 100% preventable!!!!!

if a man stood in front of me and threatened my life in an attempt to get to my child and beat them then by God you will have to kill me...that is what mom's do...sacrifice themselves!!!!!!!!!

she has never mentioned being afraid of AB at all, the only violence in that home was against Carnel with mom's permission.

Carnel is the only victim!!!! and that poor child, at the innocent age of 4 spoke out against his abuser-not once, but multiple times-and mom did nothing!!!!

Carnel at 4 was more of a man than AB could ever imagine to be-

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Post by Marica on Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:24 pm

Calypso... Sometimes my common sense flies right out the window
and more often than not when a child is abused or murdered.
I see what you are saying. We don't know for sure.. Takes me back
to the Horman case.. Terri looks guilty, and if she is, then Kaine SHOULD
have known or at least sensed there was a problem there. Having
lived in a situation where someone hurt my kids, and I NEVER
saw it because he was so sly... Thankfully they were never hurt bad,
but he did hurt them. Still hurt is hurt, and I should have known, or
at least guessed.. but I was clueless. I wasn't even in love with the
guy! He was simply someone in my life.
Anyway... You are right.. we do need to KNOW more,
to have some proof.
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Post by sitemama on Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:30 pm

Marica, I just had to add to your parade:


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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:45 pm



Ladies~ Let's just wait for the facts to come out!

Kick back and grab a hula hoop!
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Post by glazier on Sat Jun 30, 2012 6:03 pm

I understand what you're saying Calypso, but we do have facts here. Such as the Mother admiting she saw with her own eyes this PSYCHO pick up the 4 year old BY THE NECK!
That SHOULD have been it, right then and there, get the kid
AWAY from the danger.
Combined with the bruises she saw, I mean that is Prima Facia (sp?) evidence of abuse.
She has custody of the child for a MONTH and he ends up dead? There needs to be accountability or these scenes will
play out again and again.

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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 6:15 pm

I just want to know what the extent of the abuse was within the family aside from Bennett and Carnel.

What abuse was she receiving from Bennett, if any.

I don't doubt he was abusive and controling with the mother, but we will have to wait for that information.

She was allegedly with him for 7 months prior.

Domestic abuse is a cycle that keep perpetuating itself.

Kids that grow up in that cycle view it as normal and grow up to be adults who continue it in their own families.

This is by NO means an excuse to kill someone or violate the rights of others.

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Post by Calypso on Sat Jun 30, 2012 6:32 pm

The fact that a woman stays with a man who hurts their child like that tells you there's something wrong with that woman.
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Post by Marica on Sat Jun 30, 2012 7:02 pm

Do we have factual information on who had actual custody of Carnel?
If the mother, when did she loose custody and to whom.? When did she regain custody?
Did the Grandmother have any indications that Carnel was in danger?
The Mother indicates after the fact, that there were signs of abuse. Has she ever explained what prevented her from taking action?
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Post by Honeysage on Sat Jun 30, 2012 7:32 pm

i'm only aware of Carnel being taken away as an infant, then mom got treatment for drugs and she was given back custody. not sure of any recent custody or CPS issues...anyone have a link?
also wonder if anyone else saw bruises on Carnel and what excuse mom gave then. was he in preschool?
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